Friday, December 17, 2010


I am so sad to say
the baby that would have joined our family
was born last nite way too early.
I was so excited only to be crushed.
My sister in law must endure a sadness
I remember all too well & would not want for anyone.
But she is not alone in it
my boys are so brokenhearted
they wanted a baby cousin so bad
my inlaws
my husband
her partner
the entire family.
My heart is heavy with anger, questions & grief.
Sometimes things in life are just so wrong.


Bobbi said...

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

Julye said...

So sorry for your loss and so near christmas too, you can only cosole yourself in the knowledge that time will heal and maybe it6 was natures way of stopping a child that may have had health problems suffering. I don't mean to sound cruel but it may be one possible answer to a question you may never get answered and something that seems so unfair in this world. My thoughts are with you all and I am truely sorry for your loss of a new person that would have been so obviously loved by you all a great deal.

The Cropping Canuck said...

{hugs} said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this incredibly sad and difficult time. I feel your pain and can only say that it sounds like you are strong famliy unit which will help to ease the rawness of things over the coming days and weeks. x

Sarah A said...

Oh Vanessa my heart sank when I read your post and my tears flowed, I am so sorry for you all. I hope you can all take solace in the fact that you are (by the sounds of it) a really close family and as such you will help eachother through this.

I have been through this too and it always hurts when I hear of another mother suffering.

Hugs and love.

Sarah x

Debbi said...

Oh, I am so sorry for you and your family. I will pray that God will comfort you and give you strength to face each day ahead.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your family's loss! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers and hope that you all can comfort each other at this time, as there are no words that can express the pain that you are all going through. Only time can heal the pain.

Cecelia said...

Oh, Vanessa. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of the new baby. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Cecelia B

Vicky said...

Sweetie can you put your right hand on your left shoulder & then put your left hand on your right shoulder......this is me giving you the biggest heartfelt hug. I know exactly how this feels its happened to me more than once & its an heartbreak I wouldn't wish anyone. They say time heals but it doesn't, the pain always remains you just learn to cope with it & learn to hide it away from others. You & your family really are in my thoughts hunni....will have to go now I'm crying for you sweetie.

All my love & hugs Vicky xxx

angelwhispers said...

Really don't know what to say Vanessa this is just too sad to put into words!!!! Just to let you know my thoughts are with you all.

Love Chanelle xx

Unknown said...

Hi Vanessa x I am so sad to hear this news x Your hearts must be broken x Let your love heal where possible x Thinking of you x Leigh x

Sol said...

So Sorry for your familys loss! Thinking of you...!

Rufus said...

I'm so very sorry to hear of your family's loss. Hang on to each other and together time will help to heal you. Feeling your pain and wishing you comfort in the arms of your loved ones.

Debbie said...

My deepest condolences - I can never understand why life can be so cruel at times. Sending you and your family all my love

Sally said...

Oh Hun,
So sorry to hear of your family's loss. Just remember it is normal to feel anger and question. That is what makes us human, but in all of it try to remember that God and your friends are there for you. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers. *hugs*

Scrapthat said...

Oh no Nessa, I am so so sorry to hear this. :(

Powerful Search Engine said...

OMG Vanessa my thoughts and prayers are with you hunny xxx Hugs Pascale

Anonymous said...


Sorry.........sending love, 'cause words are not enough